Tuesday, January 6, 2009

What Exactly Is Cheating?

Let me guess; you did a double take when you read the title of this article, right? I'm not condoning cheating in a relationship, nor denying that it's wrong to cheat. I'm merely suggesting that in some cases, cheating may be beneficial to a relationship.

So why am I writing about such a controversial issue? Because most men and women cheat on their partners at some point in a relationship, and they need to be informed that cheating has at least an ounce of redeeming value. Cheating is not always bad; surprisingly, it can help to improve current relationships.

I'm not implying that every man should go out and be unfaithful, no am I implying that all men cheat on every woman they date. All it means is that at some point, the little head overpowers the big head and men venture into forbidden territory.

what ever iz it, hakikat nye "I BENCI PENIPU & MENIPU"

Dalil balasan menipu orang lain.
Firman Allah SWT maksudnya:
"Sesungguhnya orang-orang munafik itu menipu Allah sedangkan Allah akan membalas tipuan mereka. Dan apabila mereka berdiri untuk bersolat mereka berdiri dengan malas, mereka bermaksud riyak dengan solat dihadapan manusia. Dan tidaklah mereka menyebut nama Allah kecuali sedikit sekali".
(An Nisa, 142)
Firman Allah SWT maksudnya:
"Sesungguhnya orang-orang munafik itu ditempatkan pada tingkatan yang paling bawah dari neraka, dan kamu sekali-kali tidak akan mendapat seorang penolongpun bagi mereka".
(An Nisa, 145)

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